Sunday, March 20, 2011

The Grass Is Always Greener...

This weekend the hubs and I wanted to "get away" from Huntersville. We both have been working a lot (him with 3 jobs and me with 2) and it was starting to make me a little crazy. My only criteria for our weekend getaway was to not go anywhere where there was any relatives or ANY obligations (such as cleaning, checking on the house, etc..etc.) We originally planned on going to Charleston but the weekend Spring rates there are pretty much an arm and a leg so somehow we ended up in Myrtle Beach. Now, I know what you're thinking...Myrtle Beach vs. Charleston? Seems like a no brainer, but the weather was forecast-ed to be beautiful and with a waterfront room for $90 a night we didn't think we could go wrong. I hadn't been to Myrtle since I was 14 years old....and once we got there I remembered why :-) Endless rednecks, bikers, drunk/high dirt bags strolling and stumbling around Ocean Blvd. But, I refused to let all of the above get us down. We shopped at the outlets, hung out at Barefoot Landing/Broadway at the Beach and enjoyed a late night out listening to a great band. We also discovered a gem of a restaurant that if we ever returned to Myrtle (don't hold your breath) we'd definitely go to again. The Flying Fish Market & Grill served up some of the freshest and best seafood I've ever experienced. B and I both got the "Low Country Boil" which is a favorite of mine. I was sort of nervous about that choice, because so many places ruin their "boils" by dousing everything in heavy amounts of Old Bay. But, to my surprise the shrimp, sausage, corn and potatoes were absolutely perfect. We sat right at a huge window with great views of the Inter coastal Waterway (and watched the sunset at that :-) It made the trip worth it I have to say.

Ok, so the trip really WASN'T that bad. But it REALLY made me miss my "beach home" on Topsail Island. I've spent every vacation there since before I was born and I can remember times when I would whine about not being able to go to Disney, the "Outer Banks" or even dirty Myrtle Beach. It seemed like Topsail was getting old...too quaint and quiet, too many kids, or not enough places to shop. I'll be honest and say that's one of the reasons I wanted to go to Myrtle this weekend, because I knew exactly what to expect from Topsail and I wanted something different. However, I can now embrace Topsail with open arms and look forward to my small town summer escape. So to wrap things up I guess I got a good ole helpin of "The Grass is Always Greener on the Other Side" this weekend :-)

The view from our balcony.








CAN'T WAIT FOR SUMMERRR!!

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Thoughts for the Day

So today..Tuesday. Shouldn't have been soo bad. But it turned out to be. Just a small list of phrases to describe my day:

$1,000 spent
cat puking all day (not my cats)
cold clouds & rain
horrible reception
heartburn
nanny induced bloody finger
oven burned hand

And that's all I have to say about that. COME ON WEDNESDAY!!

Monday, February 28, 2011

Thoughts for the Day

Sometimes there are bad days. And that is ok. Today didn't start off that rough, but it certainly ended that way. I am not one of those people that can take criticism well, never have been, probably never will be....especially when it comes from someone I love. Today was just that. I was "put in my place" by someone I dearly love. You know how sometimes you just roll through life "kicking asses and taking names" and you think all is well...and then suddenly, you realize you've been running someone over or doing something you were against, without even realizing it? Well...that happened to me today. And all I can really say is that I am SO sorry to this person for hurting her, but I am SO grateful that she was honest enough to tell me how she felt. We all need to be held accountable by our loved ones, and even when it sucks and you end up crying in your sushi (yes really, I was one of THOSE girls today) it is worth it...because it helps me to be a better person. I believe that with every day we are alive, every day we grow and learn and today was no exception.